The skills learned not only lead to more mature and responsible children but you will find yourself using the same skills and techniques in other relationships as well. The approach takes a little time to learn but it is well worth it. Please, consider visiting the library and checking out a CD, the book, or by going to their website. My wife and I used this parenting approach to raise our children and it was extremely helpful. Caring for ourselves is paramount if we are going to be successful. Also, this approach pushes the parents to take good care of themselves. A philosophy that holds kids accountable but yet provides the love and empathy they need. Parents find themselves more united because they are both operating out of a common philosophy. PARENTING WITH LOVE AND LOGIC also has huge benefits for the parents. The self-concept begins to improve not because we are attempting to build them up with empty praise but because they are learning new skills, skills that allow them to care for themselves. We begin to communicate with phrases like “Would you like to discuss some things that might work?” “What are your options?” “Would you like to know what worked for me when I was going through a similar situation?” The child’s self concept begins to improve. This opens the opportunity for us to teach some basic problem solving skills. Plus, because our relationship with our children is improving they will use us more and more to problem solve. At this point the child matures by beginning to realize that their choices directly affect them and they begin to move to solve their own problems.
As we begin to use these new techniques the child comes to realize we are there for them, we understand, we support them, but we will not “overly” protect them or “overly” direct them. Our children learn through experiencing, in a framework of clear and consistent limits. This decreases the negative emotion in the relationship while prompting a win/win situation. We support our children using encouragement while focusing on their strengths. For example, “would it be best for you to do homework right after school or are you a kid that likes a break first and would rather do your homework right after dinner?” Children begin to own their own problems our homes begin to operate more like the real world. PARENTING WITH LOVE AND LOGIC by Foster Cline and Jim Fay when possible. This site is like a library, Use search box in the widget to get ebook that you want.
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